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Love is not governed by definitions or rules So much of our cognitive development is shaped by models of the world that we have assimilated from intellectuals who think they understand the design of life and their paradigm or methodology is the best approximation for success. Problem is – truth is a moving target. We…

The Ghost of the Past Self There are stories that we believe in that keep our reality the same, doesn’t matter how big we dream and how much we work on ourselves. To truly transform our reality, we must change the shape of our thought – fundamentally. The core limitation of – we are not…

  Your choice leads to your inevitable end result. We can learn all that we need to about the mind, yet there are moments where – regardless of what we know, we still put our guards up and withhold our love to protect ourselves. Love is a choice we make daily. Despite our fears, despite…

Emotions are neither good nor back. Thinking makes it so. This great line that emotions are neither good nor bad was written by Shakespeare. The depth of this concept is realised when thinking fails us and we surrender to feeling alone. It is then that we realise that emotions by themselves are not harmful. In…

We are our greatest challenge When we cling on to security we prevent ourselves from desiring all that we could wish for. We think that what we want exists somewhere and we can do whatever it takes to get it. We invest too much energy in acquiring a goal. However, there is nothing that we…

The paradox of Achievement Now ask your self – who has benefited from your achievements? Let’s be honest here, achievements are often self-centric goal sets what we confirm to ourselves to make ourselves feel better, to impress others and seek recognition, approval and social status.For high achievers, the performance addiction is a drive that is…